Why you gotta be so rude?

Scene 1 : Penang Desserts, Airport

Total was Rm 3.60, but she gave Rm50 (no small changes).
Cashier : WOII, TAKDE DUIT KECIK KE? 3.60 JE PON! 
Her : Sorry, takde.
Cashier : Turns into The Hulk and smashes everything within her distance to the concrete wall !! 

Okay, the cashier which is a hijabi she, did not do the exact that,but you've got the point. 

Scene 2 : Caltex Station

Was in line at the ATM machine. 
Foreign : Hi, how are you! 
Pakcik : Im good, how are you? 
Foreign: Im good, it's raining heavily.
Pakcik: Raining good. How you come? I was on my bike.
Foreign: Oh! That's better. I came here walking. At least 6km from here.
Pakcik: Walking good. Your health good too. 

And yeah, the Pakcik talked like that. POWER!!! 

I wonder what could you see and judge from the 2 scenarios. It opened eyes actually, to me personally. I actually do not understand why Malays mostly (and I am a Malay girl as well) have trouble being nice. Especially when your image ask you too. The girl was wearing her headscarf, i'm not saying you are obliged, but aren't you suppose to be kind as you are wearing a headscarf. You are suppose to. It is amended on to you. She was so rude. Like my mom always say "if you don't act like one, don't wear a cover up".
I'm just saying ones you put it on, go by the rules. Shut your mouth, be nice and go find change if you have none in your possession. Life were made easy, why you gotta ruin everything?

I am proud to be a Malaysian. It is the best country ever but the people though, I would totally trade the rude ones with the foreign western ones. They are much more humble, much more friendlier and generous and they are just an awesome bubble of joy. People should just think before they speak,period. 

Bruises could heal, but sharp torturous words are there forever. 

Please akak cashier, change your attitude. With that, you ain't going anywhere.